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Lucy M.PGreat podcast!I absolutely adore this podcast. It’s fun and informational. If you’re navigating the modern world of dating, this is definitely worth a listen :)
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Dana Nygaard, LPCTransformative and EmpoweringDamona’s podcast is a masterclass is navigating modern relationships with clarity and intention. Her blend of wispy and actionable advice inspires real growth and meaningful connections.
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GurlhowdyF the Fairy TaleWhat a refreshing book. I feel like it had this sense of practicality and just so much wisdom. I feel like Damona has such an open, loving, sensible approach to dating with a goal of finding real relationships that really resonates with me.
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abitocdDating Reality CheckRead the book and can’t stop listening to the podcast! Love Damona’s perspective on dating. She tells it like it is and gives actionable tools you can use dating in the world today!
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PRGirl47Relationship ExpertGreat advice, fun podcast. Thanks Damona!
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caki diehlThank youFor the hood work Damona - level headed and sound advice in what can be a crazy dating world!
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SD_RunnerSuper helpful dating advice!!Love Damona! Her advice is helpful, fun, and it works! Doing good on the dating apps because I followed her advice & expanded my preferences. Thank you Damona! 😘
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Mpls~CC2Not InclusiveListening to the podcast I was hopeful that it would entertaining and possibly helpful, it was neither. The focus seems to be primarily on white millennials and Gen z women with a whole lot nothing else.
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TheLittlestKicksLove it, butLove the podcast, the content, the host, but I really wish she would get rid of the smooches. It gives off creepy vibes and sets my misophonia on fire. Not enough to stop me from listening because I can just skip over that part, but the times that I’m not able to reach my phone fast enough to skip it’s like nails on chalkboard.
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kwajkidFun and honest dating adviceThanks for a realistic show about modern dating! your show has helped me get ready to get back out thereafter my divorce. I appreciate the down to earth discussion and open talk about modern dating. I feel ready to date and prepared for some of the people I’ll meet. (Could do without the “dating dish” gossip segment)
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madameskittleYAAASS!Damona gives thoughtful and encouraging advice! Love all the different topics and perspectives she brings up.
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Rinzler_Best Dating and Relationship podcast EVER!! 🙌🏽If you’re searching for a great dating advice pod look no further! Damona Hoffman has been a certified dating coach for over 15 years. She’s always up to date with current trends in dating news and statistics. Her and her team are the BEST!!! ❤️ —Chris
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razz67890Love this podcast!Damona gives real-world, tough love dating advice. Love her
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Mali_SwansonGreat tools and tips to learn from plus she’s funnyHas the current tea on all things related to dating and relationships. Great tips for those who are single and not. Interesting POV’s from Astrologers, other dating coaches and website algorithm subject matter experts. She gives inspiration on dating on special times like this (current epidemic times) and her other articles to read on are great. Thank you Damona for keeping this podcast going with current and relevant issues.
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Dahlbeautie♥️Loved you from black love!! This his my first time listening!I’ve been online dating for 12 years. I’ve haven’t meet my forever person yet. I’m hoping and wishing♥️
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jesswillmoreNew favorite podcast!I absolutely love this podcast, I love the topics, guests and of course Damona! I listen to it while driving, cooking or laying in bed when I want the TV shut off
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TavishyaShe Gets Better Every YearDamona’s Halloween episode never disappoints I look forward to it every year! Every single year ya’ll.
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Bailey328135Love this podcast!I’m so glad I found this podcast! Damona’s advice is always so insightful, helpful, and real. Being out here in this wild dating world, I am always seeking out good advice, and I swear I learn something new on every episode. Thank you Damona!
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losperez10013Timely and honestDamona’s advice is not only on point, but delivered with humor. Her voice is an important one —listen up!
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victactoeYes and mostly noIf you’re looking for applicable, useful dating advice this isn’t the show for you. Most of the advice almost seems like a joke. If you’re looking for fun pop culture dating news and interesting guests here and there, maybe you’ll enjoy it. It’s an entertaining listen, but realistically I wouldn’t take most of the advice Damona gives. Overall vibe is silly and light but not at all what I would consider my go-to dating advice podcast.
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sarahlllouiseFavorite Podcast!Everything she says is succinct and relevant and well-thought through. This podcast made me think deeper about the subjects discussed and made me laugh, made me more aware of the how the world works today. I love Damona’s real, feminist, positive perspective.
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Tru SkyFabulous & informative & FUNNY!!!This podcast is super entertaining & chock full of helpful dating in the modern world now dating in covid world advice!! Damona is insightful, thoughtful and delivers het message in a compassionate way!! Love it!!!
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nyc00000OutdatedWhat a bizarre flashback to 90s/00s toxic femininity. If you’re looking for a podcast to tell single ladies that the pandemic is no excuse not to be completely hairless from the nose down, you’ve found it.
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GeminijoonGreat dating showHer advice is always reasonable and fun topics.
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MarquisOlisonGets Better and BetterEven while you're locked away, listening to Damona can help you find love. She's the absolute best!
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JPatt0001Damona is the real deal!I have known Damona since the very beginning of undergrad, and we’ve been in regular-ish touch these past 20-25 (!!) years... but I only listened to Dates & Mates for the first time now. All of that said — Damona walks the walk and always has, and I am floored by how she’s channeled her whole SELF into this podcast. Her voice is genuine and true, and it so purely reflects exactly who she is and what she is about. She truly is one of those people you feel better having been around, and this is so palpable, even on podcast. You can trust that her advice and wisdom comes from the truest place, with such sincere intent — and on great experience. And her humor, humility, and warmth are, as ever, unparalleled. Thank you, Damona, for always being you!
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trublu78Top notch adviceThis podcast is informative and insightful! So happy to have found it.
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Lodges2ObsessedWhere have you been all my life? Love every podcast. DH is engaging and fun to listen to and her podcasts does not disappoint. It is very informative and cover a wide array of dating issues and advise. I feel like I know her. I do take notes and I’ve binged a whole year in one month.
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Slingo addict!I’m becoming a dating pro!I am so addicted to Damona’s podcast and advice! I take notes and even replay some of her shows often. I love the Master Class series! She even responds to my IG dms!!! 🙌🏼👏🏼 Wooohoo thanks Damona! I’m thinking I’ll be done with this dating real soon!
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DarlinNikki_O+>WOWI’m obsessed, & can’t believe I’ve never heard this pod!! Lovin every ep, & don’t wanna sleep, just binnnj!!
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J'adore them!Excellent dating guidance!!Her advice is wise, current and she is engaging and positive. Thank you!
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NicolewavesI look forward to this podcast every week!I enjoy listening to this podcast on my way to work every Monday. The host is funny and engaging and she always has a wide variety of love/dating themes to address. You won’t be disappointed!
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Diva787Learning and CacklingAbsolutely love the conversations, guests and horror stories on the episodes. Learning through others experiences has a much funnier twist.
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meemajnineVery genuine and informativeI’ve been listening to Damona for the last few months and I very much enjoy the topics and guests she has on the podcast. Being a single woman in L.A., the discussions and message Damona sends to her single listeners, really come from a good and caring place. Even though she is married, it’s great to know and hear that she’s rooting and supporting us singles.
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Rach61984Practical, Fresh, FunI look forward to Damona’s podcast every Monday. She offers practical advice and her guests are top-notch, entertaining, and relatable. I’ve been an avid listener for 3+ months and have downloaded prior podcasts as well, and the concepts/tools I’ve learned have made a big difference in my approach to dating and how I’m defining success. Thank you, Damona!
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@jacobskinsuitSO GOOD.I’ve been a listener since the beginning, and I can honestly say that this is one of the most consistently-great relationship podcasts out there. Highly, highly recommend. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
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LodoviciusThoughtful with common sense"Dates and Mates" by Damona Hoffman is outstanding. Show is fresh, clever and helpful to people of different age groups. Lightly mixed with celebrity dating gossip, Damona brings on a wide variety of dating and relationship experts.
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J. BarshopFor those craving RealnessDamona and her guests are equal parts hilarious, authentic and insightful. Each episode is packed full so much great advice, while also hodling your hand through the hard stuff. Thanks for creating such an engaging show Damona - keep up the great work!
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TE193Fantastic show - informative & funny!This podcast has it all... funny, entertaining and whether or not you are looking for love, there are some great takes on relationships and being single. The host, Damona, keeps the show moving with some engaging, fun riffs on today’s dating game. Great voice too. Definitely a fun listen every week to catch up on gossip in the news as well. I think men and women would enjoy this show because there are so many things you never think about when it comes to the single game or relationships.
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Vince GuaglioneHighly InformativeLove this podcast! The guests are highly knowledgable and very informative, and Damona's insight as a dating coach is valued. Textpert Q&A segment is great also! Keep up the great work!
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EvinRoseInsightful & entertaining!As a dating coach myself, I'm a huge fan of Damona's "Dates & Mates" podcast! She offers the perfect balance of humorous entertainment and powerful insight, so the show is a blast and a must-listen for anyone looking to upgrade their love lives. She brings on a wide range of awesome guests with varied perspectives, covering just about every dating and love topic you can think of. LOVE IT!
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Michelle in ChicagoConservatives BewareI enjoy this podcast. It’s lively and entertaining. It has some good advice from time to time. However, I stopped listening because I am overweight and I was incredibly insulted by one of the podcasts where they dealt with overweight women. Also, since I tend to be more politically conservative, Damona has insulted me and my intelligence several times. When you bring politics into it, you are going to offend half of your audience. Why do you want to do that??
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@zeeloNot just for singles!When you’re single and looking, there’s plenty of topics to discuss about why you’re still single and looking. I’ve been married 7 years to the love of my life, and Damona and Ray still find tons of funny, poignant, interesting things to say about being happily hooked up! And some of those dating tips for singles really apply to us married folk… especially if we want to avoid being single all over again :D
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patrickwooistSo Darn Useful And EntertainingDamona is so wonderful in this show. The topics that she brings up along with her guests are so entertaining that you cannot help but laugh out loud with them. 5 stars all the way.
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Kimberly SeltzerLove Love Love this show!I love Damona and Ray. They give a dynamic flare that is fun and give great advice. I know them both personally and they are the real deal. It’s a must listen! —Kim Seltzer, Dating & Makeover Expert
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wally1219Very informative!Damona's show is very fun and informative. She often has great guests too.
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JoeFryGuyThe best!As my college roommate, Damona gave amazing dating advice. Now everyone gets to hear what she has to say!
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Dimki1Such a good show!Love Damona's approach to dating and her perspective! Talk about expert! <3
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SusieDahlSassy & sound dating advice!I love Damona's fresh take on conquering the dating scene. Whether you are new to dating or someone who's jumping back in, she's got you covered with a lovely blend of humor, encouragement, and tough love. Ray is the perfect sidekick as well! All in all Dates & Mates is a must-listen!
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BeccaticaLove Dates & MatesDamona keeps it so real! I love listening to the show and getting tips on how to navigate the modern dating scene. It felt daunting to have to dive back into dating after so many years out of the game, but it has helped a lot to have a resource like this to get up to speed on the best strategies for dating and also demystify some of the online dating world. Thanks for what you do!
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